Judgement Daze

   How sad to hear about so many women, and some men too, who have lived for years with the frightening memories of being sexually abused. There have been so many reports of those fearful of talking about it because of many reasons: they will be scorned, shamed, doubted, ostracized.

   How sickening to know that many abusers have got away with these assaults. Many going on to be prominent citizens, boasting of their achievements, while getting away with such vile behavior.

   How strong it has been for the survivors of these attacks to come forward now, sharing their stories - being heard, being validated, becoming a beacon for others to stand strong.

   How cruel is it that so many call these survivors liars, and denigrate them. Why must they try to squash these voices? Why must they be so angry toward them?

   “Therefore judge nothing before the appointed time; wait till the Lord comes. He will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and will expose the motives of men’s hearts.”  I Cor 4:5

   It is difficult for many of us to not place judgment when we hear the chaotic responses to these troubling stories. Yet we must make judgements about what is right versus what is wrong; make decisions about setting up a process that is fair and just for all sides; determine what is in the best interest overall. Due process. Do right. Let survivors be heard.       Theresa M